18 Traditional Values That Don’t Align with Modern Times

Written By Jill Taylor

The modern world is changing constantly, and many old values seem to have been forgotten. Join us for a trip down memory lane to remember 18 things we used to hold dearly as a society but don’t anymore.

Respect for Authority

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The role of authority in our society has changed substantially over the past few decades, and nowadays, it appears that fewer people respect it in the same way. Societal structures aren’t what they used to be, and this has an impact on law and authority.

Patriarchal Society

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A report by the Pew Research Center showed that in 2013, women made up almost half of the workforce in the U.S. Compare that to 50 or 60 years ago, and the difference is drastic! And it’s not just about work—the impact of the feminist and LGBTQ+ movements has changed roles in society.

The Nuclear Family Ideal

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Once upon a time, the American dream was for a husband and a wife to live in a nice suburban home with a car and kids, but the world has realized that this dream doesn’t often come true.

Work Ethic Centered on Long Hours

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A few decades ago, there really wasn’t such a thing as ‘work-life balance’, but now many parts of the world focus more on employee happiness to get the most out of them on their jobs. The rise of the gig economy has also made way for more flexible working.

Obedience Without Question

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We talked about the change in respect for authority earlier on, but there’s also something to be said about our overall lack of obedience to what we’re told. The internet has empowered people to challenge others and verify their facts, which is probably for the best!

Marital Permanence

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According to  Forbes, the U.S. has one of the highest divorce rates in the world, and that number rises every year. In previous times, people would just stay in marriages that they were unhappy with, but now, they believe that it is actually possible to leave and move on.

Insignificance of Individual Goals

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These days, people are empowered to pursue the things that they actually want from life rather than just following what they’re told by their parents or at school. The idea of personal fulfillment and self-realization being available to everyone is still pretty new.

Education as Memorization

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Studying for many years was focused on making students remember as many things as they could from a textbook or a lesson in class. However, the world has learned that this is not a true reflection of their intelligence, so education systems have moved towards problem-solving, critical thinking, and creative education models.

Manual Labor as a Virtue

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Production values have changed constantly over the past couple of centuries, and nowadays, there are far fewer people carrying out manual labor (in the Western world). Intellectual and creative work is valued much more highly than it used to be.

Reluctance to Embrace Technology

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HLB claims that technology is no longer seen as a tool for transformation but as necessary for survival. So, people have no choice but to embrace it in their lives. And they’ve quickly realized that it can be a force for good, so it’s not so scary.

Single Breadwinner Model

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We’ve discussed how the nuclear family is no longer relevant and that women’s roles in society are getting closer to true equality. Therefore, nowadays, multiple breadwinners are often present in the same household.

Conformity to Social Norms

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The idea of conforming to social norms is nowhere near as popular as it used to be. These days, people are more willing to celebrate the uniqueness of their individual lives than to follow the rest of the country’s example.

Strict Hierarchical Structures

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As we move further into the 21st century, there’s been a significant move towards flatter organizational structures in business and governance, and decision-making in general has been very much decentralized.

Importance of Secrecy and Privacy

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A report by Enzuzo found that as many as 64% of people felt that their data was less private than it was years ago. That’s a pretty worrying fact, but the reality is that the digital age has changed how we view our own privacy.

Formality in Communication

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In the workplace, people are much more likely to communicate in an informal way than they would have done even 20 or 30 years ago. If you read an email between a boss and an employee at the turn of the century, it would be a lot more formal than one today.

Homogeneous Societies

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Can you believe that there was a time in the past when people really believed that we were all the same? It was never a healthy way to process multiculturalism, as most people have now realized that we should celebrate our differences, not ignore them.

Consumerism as a Value

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The rise of materialism in favor of minimalism or sustainability has changed the way that Americans shop and live their lives. Everybody wants the latest ‘thing’ to keep up with society, and they’re prepared to pay good money to get it, even if it means clutter.

The Need to Save Face

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Even though people may want to ‘save face,’ these days, the general consensus is that people prefer authenticity and transparency. So, ‘saving face’ is a less accepted and favored social construct.

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